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Anger No More: leading with


Do you have trouble managing your anger at work? Do you regret what you say or the tone you use? You’re not alone in this, and stopping your angry responses is possible.

Why is it important for you to manage your anger? Losing your temper creates fear and uncertainty among your team members, leading to decreased motivation and productivity. Anger leads to poor decision-making, impulsive actions, and damaged relationships with colleagues and stakeholders.

By managing your anger, you can create a more positive and productive work environment, foster open communication and collaboration, and build stronger relationships with your team. Ultimately, effective anger management sets a positive example for your team and creates a harmonious and successful workplace.

Who’s in the Hot Seat?

Coaching Client

Amy is the Chief Content Officer of a leading digital media company that specializes in producing and distributing video content. She oversees a team of writers, producers, and video editors responsible for creating engaging and informative content for the company's various digital platforms.

Coaching Challenge

During a meeting with her team, Amy became increasingly frustrated with their lack of progress on a critical project. She raised her voice, criticized team members, and made disparaging remarks about their abilities. Her outburst left the team feeling demotivated, embarrassed, and resentful toward Amy.Following the meeting, Amy reflected on her behavior and realized that her anger had a negative impact on the team's morale and productivity. She also received feedback from colleagues who expressed concern about her management style and its impact on the workplace culture. These experiences made her realize that she needed to manage her anger more effectively to be a better leader for her team.

Strategies to Overcome Anger

Through Executive Coaching, Amy focused on four important strategies to manage her anger.

Recognizing triggers: Amy started by identifying the situations and people that triggered her anger. She learned to recognize the physical and emotional signals that preceded her outbursts, such as elevated heart rate and feelings of frustration. By understanding her triggers, Amy was able to anticipate and prevent angry reactions, and she developed healthier coping mechanisms. Positive Outcome: Amy’s increased awareness of her triggers allowed her to respond more calmly and thoughtfully in stressful situations. She felt more in control of her emotions and was able to prevent conflicts from escalating.

Prioritizing self-care: Amy realized the importance of taking care of her physical and emotional health to manage her anger. She began prioritizing regular exercise, healthy eating habits, and getting enough sleep. She also scheduled breaks throughout the day to recharge and reduce stress. Positive Outcome: Amy’s self-care routine allowed her to manage her stress more effectively, resulting in improved physical health and a more positive mindset. She was able to approach challenges with greater clarity and focus.

Improving communication skills: Amy recognized that her communication style was contributing to her anger. She worked on developing better listening skills, using "I" statements to express her feelings, and avoiding blaming or shaming language. She also learned to be more assertive in setting boundaries and expectations. Positive Outcome: Amy’s improved communication skills enabled her to express herself more clearly and effectively, leading to more productive and positive interactions with team members. She was also able to establish more respectful and collaborative relationships.

Practicing mindfulness: Amy started practicing mindfulness techniques such as deep breathing, meditation, and visualization. She learned to stay present in the moment and to observe her thoughts and emotions without judgment. Positive Outcome: Amy’s mindfulness practice helped her stay calm and centered in stressful situations. She maintained her composure and responded thoughtfully, even in the face of challenging circumstances.


Amy’s commitment to managing her anger had a significant positive impact on her leadership and workplace culture. Her team members feel more engaged, supported, and valued, resulting in increased productivity and a more positive work environment.